As a parent, you've likely experienced a mix of excitement and apprehension as your child prepares to embark on their university journey.
To help you navigate this transition, here are some personal insights from James Seymour, a parent of a new university student and Director of Marketing and Student Recruitment at the University of Northampton.
Understanding your child's experience
- Expect ups and downs: University life is a journey, and ups and downs are normal. Students will likely encounter challenges as they adjust to a new environment and academic workload. Encourage resilience, kindness, and connection, and remind them that their primary goal is to learn and grow.
- Set realistic expectations: While the 'best time of your life' narrative is often romanticised, it's important to remember that university life is a blend of academic pursuits, social interactions, and personal growth.
- Respect their space: While social media and messaging apps can provide a sense of connection, remember that your child is experiencing a new type of independence. Many students, especially those living at home, need time and space to adjust to their new lifestyle. Encourage them to make friends, participate in extracurricular activities, and explore their interests. Over 30% of new students in 2024 (young students under 21) were classed as living at home – so this advice matters for them too.
Practical tips for parents
- Timing is key: Consider attending orientation events or drop-off days, but be mindful to allow your children to settle in and explore their new surroundings.
- Seek support: When you drop your child off, connect with student services, academic advisers, and accommodation staff to understand the resources available. These professionals can provide invaluable guidance and support.
- Proximity matters: While it's convenient for your child to be within commuting distance, it's also important to encourage independence. A balance between accessibility and autonomy can be beneficial. Checking the practicalities and cost of travel to and from campus is a good idea whether they are planning to move away or stay local.
- Quality over prestige: Remember that the quality of a university experience is not solely determined by its ranking or reputation. Many providers offer excellent programmes and opportunities, regardless of their status.
Find out everything you need to know to help your child decide on their next steps.